In a society often marked by double standards when it comes to infidelity, Tolanibaj, the Nigerian media personality, has boldly asserted her stance on the matter.
Big brother naija reality TV star and disc jockey,Tolanibaj, has declared that she will cheat back if her spouse ever cheats on her.
She added that if the cheating spouse did not bring any value to her, she would exit the relationship, but if the cheating partner was “empowering” her, she may stay in the toxic relationship.
Tolanibaj made this claim In the inaugural episode of the Bahd And Boujee Podcast, hosted by her and actress Moet Abebe .
She stated that:
“Crying in a Lamborghini is better than crying in a tricycle.”
“I will not go through your phone… Maybe at the beginning, I will warn you. When I warn guys it might come off as a threat but I’m really keeping it 100. It may not be a good way of living. It may be very toxic but it works for me.
“If you’re empowering me and you are useful, and you cheat on me, no problem. Just continue playing your role- empowering me.
“But if you cheat on me and you are not adding value to me, what am I still doing there? Do you get it? That’s how I see it. I would prefer to cry in a Lamborghini than in a keke [tricycle].”
In the same podcast, OAP Moet Abebe stated that “She can’t date a man that lives on the mainland”
Moet Abebe presented her viewpoint on dating, specifically in the context of physical location in Nigeria, during a podcast talk with Tolani Baj, a former Big Brother Naija competitor.
Moet Adebe stated unequivocally that she could not picture herself dating a man from Nigeria’s mainland and that she would only consider dating someone from the island. Her point of view on the subject has created debate and piqued the interest of her followers and the wider public.